People just pretend that they understand and respect love, when in reality all they need are the perks that come along with love..
They dont understand the depth it has and the fact that it comes along with a lot of pain, sufferings, sacrifices, responsibilities and when they cant tolerate all that or dont understand all that they say love eludes them, when in reality they are the ones that left love..
It is said that if its not forever its not love and still people dont understand it, you can never feel contempt or hatred towards the one you love, and if you do ..well it never was love..
I have seen people promising each other heaven and earth in love but when troubled water hits the bridge they scamper like a little rabbit, forgetting that it is only their presence which can save the other from drowning..
Ofcourse people survive after betrayal, break ups, but a part of them dies, and sometimes the same part which was their whole and soul identity..
Its not easy being in love, but then it never was..
People break up years of trust and love for something as frivolous and evanescent as lust and that is by far the most pathetic way of losing on love..
We think that love changes us big time, when in reality all it does is bring out the good in us, and when love ends or we stop identifying ourselves with it, we revert to the old, ostentatious form of our self..
In love we dont hide anything and give them everything we possess to destroy, trusting that they wont..
Its not easy being in love, but then it never was....
~~~~dedicated to love~~~~
They dont understand the depth it has and the fact that it comes along with a lot of pain, sufferings, sacrifices, responsibilities and when they cant tolerate all that or dont understand all that they say love eludes them, when in reality they are the ones that left love..
It is said that if its not forever its not love and still people dont understand it, you can never feel contempt or hatred towards the one you love, and if you do ..well it never was love..
I have seen people promising each other heaven and earth in love but when troubled water hits the bridge they scamper like a little rabbit, forgetting that it is only their presence which can save the other from drowning..
Ofcourse people survive after betrayal, break ups, but a part of them dies, and sometimes the same part which was their whole and soul identity..
Its not easy being in love, but then it never was..
People break up years of trust and love for something as frivolous and evanescent as lust and that is by far the most pathetic way of losing on love..
We think that love changes us big time, when in reality all it does is bring out the good in us, and when love ends or we stop identifying ourselves with it, we revert to the old, ostentatious form of our self..
In love we dont hide anything and give them everything we possess to destroy, trusting that they wont..
Its not easy being in love, but then it never was....
~~~~dedicated to love~~~~
Ah! Love is when you can feel happy merely by making the loved one happy! Love as people understand it is in the dreaming of how happy your loved one will make you :)
ReplyDeleteIt's not easy, and perhaps that's what makes it special !!!
ReplyDeleteAgain, I hav to say, beautifully written and the line I like the most, "It is not easy being in love, but then it nevr was..."
ReplyDeleteevery thing while reading was falling perfect and then a line so true so meaningfull comes,
"in reality all it does is bring out the good in us," but the following part of sentence,
"and when love ends..." really confused me :P, because earlier you said
"It is said that if its not forever its not love..." ;) , I got what u meant, just kidding.
I know m pathetic at writing.., but I'll try, so bear it :( & do gv it a thot.
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If we loved/love some one it can't be undone, everyone of us know that. And what love does 2 us is amazing, as beautifully described by u "We think that love changes us big time, when in reality all it does is bring out the good in us".
What I believe is that if we loved/love some one then those changes & feelings within us can never die, irrespective of what the other person may think or what the situations might be...
So why not retain that goodness and all the good stuff that bloomed from love and keep it as
a gift irrespective of whichever way it turns to...
Keep the good work going, HAPPY WRITING :)
tnanks CS, amrit,and adarsh. Adarsh its true luv never ends but i said we stop identifyin ourselves with it...
ReplyDeleteyes, you never hate the person you love. but a break up doesn't mean you don't love that person anymore. you just put an end to a relationship(ideally, by mutual consent) when you realize there are differences which cannot be reconciled. and whenever you look back at the moments spent together, it's guaranteed to put a smile on your face.
ReplyDeletemay be i am wrong because i am confused now hahaha
debajyoti,
ReplyDeletetrust me i was more confused while writing this...
thanks for visiting..
OOOpppsss!! :(
ReplyDeletePainful sweetness, that's love :)
ReplyDeletenice simple and a sweetly written tribute to love. :)
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